hi how are you doing my thoughts to your question Anne is to be yourself and just tell her about your fetish. I myself have always beeen open with my fetish and i tell you if that person is a true friend they will understand and not judge you for it besides if you can tell me one person out in the world today that doesent have a fetish or a kink then i would have to say that that person is lieing to you so just buck up and go for it Good luck with what ever you decide to do please keep us posted